This isn’t just a coach training. It’s a doorway to something deeper. And no one says it better than the people who’ve experienced it firsthand.
Below, you’ll find unfiltered stories of growth, courage, and transformation from the coaches who’ve taken the journey.
Honestly, after engaging with Being True To You, I’ve never felt more equipped to guide others through their own transformative journeys of self-discovery. I was plagued by fear, hesitation, and self-doubt, my mouse hovering over the ‘Enroll Now’ button, but trusting the process has led me to authenticate my own heart centered compass. I left behind a 12-year career in law enforcement before the course ended, confident in my readiness. The most significant readiness I feel is in having a robust set of tools and frameworks to maintain the highest ethical, moral, non-judgmental, and supportive environment for someone’s self-led transformation. Transitioning to this new path, the only area I feel I need more support with is not feeling alone while I proceed and continuing to enhance my practice.
Being True To You has taught me two vital lessons: it’s okay to seek support, and that support is readily available. With their extensive continuing support options through the Blue Lotus membership, continuing coaching training, or the business/trip sitters training. I find immense comfort knowing professional coaching and ongoing support from Being True To You will be there when I will need it most.”
Dylan Hager
“The Being True to You transformational coaching & training has quite literally changed my life; so much so, that I feel as if I am a completely different version of myself, a better version. This newer, better version is clearer, more intentional, calmer and more focused. I’ve discovered and connected with myself and others on a deeper level than I ever thought possible, which has made me more conscious of who I truly am, what is truly important to me and the importance of the community you engage with.
Steve Gorgone
“The Being True To You coach training has taught me the knowledge and skills I need to successfully coach clients through their psychedelic journeys. Going into the program, I wasn’t sure if integration coaching is something I would like to do long-term, but as I learn and internalize the lessons from each lecture, the more I realize that I am meant to come across this program, as it led me to my soul’s purpose. Since starting the course, I have become a better listener and an even more present, genuine human. I am grateful for the last 5 months and the time I got to spend with such an amazing group of like-minded people.”
Janine De Mesa
“My intention for studying this course with Being True To You was to re-align myself to what I believe is my purpose in my life and to immerse myself into course materials, practical sessions and community. I’ve spent the last 5 years working in fields that are not in alignment with my purpose and gifts. For some of these years, it was a necessary evil because mandates forced me out of my social work role. For all of 2024, I had the strong desire to move towards my alignment / true self and I very much see this course as a vehicle towards that. I needed to develop my confidence and connect with likeminded people which the course gave me.”
Alexander Irvine
A longstanding question I’ve often asked myself is “who am I? what is my ‘true self’?” I would ask this question and feel completely lost. What was I even asking? I read articles and books on the concept of “self,” but it never felt like it directly addressed the question in a way that allowed me a pathway to my answer. I feel like this course has provided me a roadmap that was previously unseen and unknown to me. Much like a psychedelic journey, the course didn’t simply hand me the solutions to my problems. It pointed me in the direction of my work. I feel like I can now move into that space with confidence that the answers are on the other side of the questions I’ve learned to ask myself.”
Jenny Cooper
“I don’t even know if I can put into words how powerful this experience has been. It has really changed my life. For the first time in a very long time I have felt safe in a community of people who are like minded. I have felt seen and heard and validated in very deep ways. I have worked through very hard triggers with the support of some amazing people!”
“The Being True To You coach training has profoundly impacted my life over the past five months, fostering significant personal growth. It has allowed me to lean into discomfort, pushing me beyond my comfort zones and helping me grow in unexpected ways. This training has equipped me with many tools to continue my integration process, ensuring that I can effectively apply the insights I’ve gained from my transformational experiences. Additionally, it has connected me with some truly amazing people, creating a supportive network that has enriched both my personal and professional life. Through this journey, I’ve learned a great deal about what kind of coach and mentor I want to be, honing my skills and clarifying my vision. Overall, the training has been a catalyst for significant personal growth and has set a strong foundation for my future endeavors in coaching and mentoring.”
Adam Peters
I feel ready and eager to begin supporting clients, equipped with a range of tools to guide individuals in uncovering their own answers. I have developed a keen awareness of dependencies and their manifestations in daily life, understanding the underlying emotions and thought patterns involved. This enables me to assist clients in navigating similar challenges and developing healthier coping mechanisms. Through my evolution in communication, shifting from problem-solving to listening and encouraging self-reflection, I am prepared to empower clients in exploring their own solutions. While I do not feel prepared to navigate significant addictions, I feel confident in guiding individuals through less impactful dependencies.
“This program has expanded me in every possible way. I have a greater understanding of myself and ways to connect (even without medicine) to my inner/higher self so that I can continue to evolve. It has also helped me with how I interact with others in a more meaningful, unbiased way that brings a new level of openness for them. It has also helped me to put words/language to things I already knew or was trying to do, but didn’t ‘know’ it was a real thing. I feel like I know myself better and am able to remove myself from the ego when it shows up – which is something I was unaware of before and didn’t know I was capable of doing. I have done a lot of self-reflecting during this course and am striving to be who my higher self is calling. I am so grateful for the safe space this course provided to learn, grow and cultivate myself and the skills to help others. My new perspective has a wider lens and my level of knowledge goes so much deeper all thanks to this training!
“The Being True To You coach training has had a profound impact on how I connect with myself and others. Over the past five months, I’ve cultivated a deeper ability to listen, without jumping to conclusions or trying to “fix” things, and this has transformed how I hold space for others. I’ve learned to approach conversations with more curiosity and patience, creating a supportive environment where others can explore their truth at their own pace. At the same time, I’ve also learned to extend that same grace and compassion to myself. This program has unveiled another level of personal growth. It provides a deeper sense of meaning and a beautiful approach on how to support others.”
“By expanding my knowledge of change, healing, and connection, the Being True To You coach training has had a significant impact on my life. I’ve become much more self-aware, emotionally resilient, and able to make room for others during my time practicing this program and its methods. In addition to enriching my own journey, the training gave me the skills and techniques I needed to help others with empathy and clarity. My relationships and feeling of purpose have improved as a result of my increased confidence in managing difficult emotions, seeing patterns, and promoting significant change.”
Cintia Chicon
Program Graduate
Aubree Chappelear
This program has super-charged my gifts. It truly has made me a better, more supportive person. And I think/thought that I was pretty awesome before. The heart-centered communication skills and framework have changed how I interact with people, especially those who have asked for advice in the past. My husband has also noticed this and can’t speak highly enough of the program based on my skill development. We are both blown away, grateful and excited for possibilities that lay ahead.”
“Where to begin? At the deepest level, words can’t describe the impact Being True To You has had on my life, it can only be felt. I felt it all. I came into this course without any desire to start a coaching business or be a coach. I simply wanted to learn how to be a better communicator, with an emphasis on listening and growing in compassion for one’s experience. Week after week came with such sweet personal transformation through the beautiful container set in lecture discussions, the vulnerability required to be present in the workshops, finding beautiful friends; all while unknowingly putting myself on a rocketship with my true self as the autopilot destination. The layers of shame, guilt, sadness, grief I have been able to transform into compassion, gratitude, humility, has been my own integration. What I discovered, however, is my own personal transformation increasingly opened my heart up to seeing how transforming my past qualifies me to lovingly support others in their own transformation.
Being True To You has helped me to open spaces of shame and clear some density that had me stuck in ‘not enough’. I have learned language and protocol around coaching, that I did not have prior to the training. I absolutely DO feel ready to begin supporting clients. Providing meaningful conversations, tools, asking probing questions and helping to create a plan is all in alignment for me, with those seeking transformation and integration for psychedelic journeys and beyond.”
“The Being True To You coach training has offered some profound insights into my personal and professional growth. Over the past five months, I have deepened my self awareness, expanded my emotional resilience, and cultivated a stronger connection with my True Self. This journey has enhanced my ability to process and integrate challenges, allowing me to approach life with greater clarity, compassion, and purpose. It has also solidified and reaffirmed my belief in the power of authenticity and holistic healing as a foundation for supporting others.”
“Taking this course has been an incredible journey and such a blessing in my life. The breadth of knowledge passed along in the lectures and workshops is nothing shy of remarkable. There is so much integrity in the entirety of this program and the loving intention at the foundation is palpable. Every person I have encountered as part of the Being True To You team; teachers, coaches, mentors, administrators, etc. have been wonderful, kind-hearted, and compassionate people. It has been a wonderful experience to join a community of like-minded people such as this, including all of the students in my cohort.
This course has highlighted personal strengths along with assisting in the discovery of areas in my life that have been holding me back. The approach taken to view one’s issues and shortcomings as opportunities for growth, without judgment, has made a particular impact on me. I have had many personal insights during these past 5 months and look forward to actualizing the benefits this course has, and will continue to have, along my path to the true-self.
Among other benefits, this course has helped me to kick-start a more robust daily practice of self-care. I have started a breathwork routine each morning. I have been doing more yoga and stepping out into nature more often. My diet has improved. My stress levels are dropping. I have love and gratitude for life and the Being True To You collective.
“Engaging in the Being True To You Coach Training has ushered in so much personal growth and healing for me. It came in perfect timing for me after the loss of my brother due to addiction. I only wish I could have engaged in this training while there may have still been time to support him. I have been in the therapeutic support industry for almost 18 years and have taken many, many continuing education trainings. I was not expecting to be so wowed by the thoroughness and caliber of excellence of the Being True To You Coach Training. It has taken me almost two decades to come to the same understandings about the path of transformation that we as individuals can each take in our lives. Anyone taking this training will have a head start not only in helping their clients, they will heal, learn and grow internally along the way!
Though I have been supporting clients for close to 2 decades, the Being True To You Coach training has expanded my confidence and the arenas in which I can offer my services. My existing clients have seen a big boost in my superpowers to serve, witness and support them on their paths of self-discovery and transformation. I look forward to implementing many of the Being True To You Transformational Coaching ideas and methods into my practice.”
many of my current relationships, I realize that my life is missing a great community to lean into. This has been one of the greatest things I’ll take away from my time at Being True To You. So many wonderful people who’ve helped me learn and grow personally. I’ve had some beautiful and impactful interactions that have changed my life for the better. I’m so grateful and I’m sure I’ve made friendships that will last a very long time. What a wonderful blessing!
“It has reiterated the passion that I have for wanting to assist people in their healing journeys. It has made me gain a lot of confidence in myself and my ability to coach others and support them in multiple different aspects of their lives. It has given me a deeper understanding of addiction and mental health struggles, and how all of these things tied together to create challenges for people. It has made me look within myself and see some areas of growth that I was unaware of and was able to focus on those things and help bring out the best in myself. It allowed me to view things through a lens of nonjudgment and also have more compassion for others than myself.”
“Wow, where to begin? Being True To You curriculum and coaches have challenged me to deeply understand and radically grow from past addictive behaviors which I had ceased long before the program, but not truly recovered from. In taking the program with my wife, our marriage has been positively impacted as we’ve both taken even more responsibility for examining, healing, and transforming past traumas and other powerful experiences. I have gained a richer understanding of heart-focused communication that serves me in my personal and professional life, especially as it relates to leaning into somatic wisdom to foster powerful understanding and growth. I have had exposure to an extraordinarily diverse group of people that I otherwise would not have met. The opportunity to be courageously vulnerable myself, and to hold space for others from such diverse backgrounds was truly a gift from the universe. In short – my heart has continued to open. How truly blessed I am!”
I feel blessed to have participated in this professional, deeply personal training and it has been one of the best decisions and experiences of my life. After so many weeks of partner coaching, I crave to begin supporting clients. I know my own skillset can only develop and evolve through practical experience and I’m dedicated to putting in the work. While it may start as pro bono work, I have the time, energy and focus to do it. With my multi-year experience working with ketamine therapy, I very much want to join the ketamine pod. I’m also looking so forward to continued training with the Blue Lotus program. With over 30 years of life experience working with addiction, I very much want to help clients with addiction recovery. And having already been recently offered a role leading a psychedelic integration circle, I feel competent and confident to work with clients on this front as well.”
“During the past five months the Being True To You coach training has deepened my understanding of my own personal transformation process. It has further helped me heal and recover from past traumas and addictions. Not only has this course helped me heal and recover, it has helped me further integrate these past experiences in a way that promotes positive growth for me physically, mentally, and spiritually. Throughout this course I have learned to appreciate past struggles and view them as gifts that are leading me closer to reuniting with my true self and to live a more authentic and fulfilling life. I have gained more appreciation for myself, others, and life in general. I now have a deeper understanding of how healing, recovery, integration, and transformation are necessary steps for positive growth and discovering meaning and purpose for one’s life. I now have more grace with myself and others. We are all in experiencing this life together.”
“This course has been life transformational. Through a combination of my full and joyfully complex life, and the inner and outer work that came up especially during the first section, I actually have taken a year to complete the program. This in itself has been a blessing through the time and interaction with wide variety of students I have come to a new place in myself. Though already a good communicator and listener, the skills offered through this program have increased my ability to hold space and simultaneously better stay in my center when the waves rise higher. Though already well practiced in compassion and empathy I feel a deeper connection with these skills both for the people I work with as well as myself.”
Basil Webb
Program Graduate
“Being True To You has made a HUGE impact on my life in so many ways. The first way is understanding addictions from a whole new perspective, and as a recovering alcoholic, this information really opened my eyes to what was happening on a much deeper level. I am able to share this knowledge with people close to me going through this. I have also learned to be a much better listener and friend as I actually process what people are talking to me about differently. I listen in a deeper way rather than thinking of what to say next. I have built the confidence to be able to hold group integration circles at my job when I’m needed. And I’m amazed that all these things happened without me barely even having to try. Everything just came naturally.”
“The way I communicate with others, listen, and respond to others is night and day from before I started this course. It was one of my main goals coming in to Being True To You was to work on my communication skills (specifically my listening skills) and I have seen the fruits of that work already paying off in my personal and professional life. I was blown away from the beginning lectures on addiction and that has really carried with me this entire time and I hope it’s something I carry for ever and even maybe dabble in professionally to help others in that space. The amount of amazing humans I was able to interact with through this course from coaches and peers was amazing. It challenged me to be better, to be open and vulnerable. Those who shared gifted me with their knowledge and experience. Overall, i’m much more confident in my abilities to coach and really see others!”
“I would recommend this course to anyone looking to change the lives of others and or looking to change their own life. It covers things from the matter of fact sciences, to depths of spirituality guiding you towards introspection and towards the path of your true self.”
Matthew Mulczynski
Program Graduate
“This has been an incredible experience with such a wonderful group of people who I deeply connected with, along with your amazing instructors. John, Elaine, Susyn, and Markus are truly amazing, they have so much knowledge and wisdom, and have such an amazing disposition. I am very sad that this course is almost over, I will miss the Being True To You community.
I have so many tools to utilize and questions to use for clients. Being in the psychedelic space there needs to be such specified training, and I love that Being True To You’s curriculum talks so much about transformation and spiritual development. It was an amazing refresher of coaching tips (I did a coach training four years ago). It has also improved my relationships with my friends and family (showing up for them and asking them loving and important questions, being a good listener)”
“I started this program 12 months after I went through something very traumatic in my life. This program has helped me in this tremendously. It has helped me understand and see where my addictions are. I realized I was mostly addicted to my thoughts and what harm they were to me as well as how much power I have to make them work for me. I also have become less judgmental, more loving and accepting of where people are at. There is so much to say here and I’m afraid I will feel up two pages. I am a better listener, more compassionate and confident than when I started. I find myself speaking with more purpose and very open and loving. I will forever be grateful of how this program has helped me in my own personal life as well as it leaves me equipped to help and coach others. Thank you Being True To You!”
“It’s had a really positive impact. I came into the course looking for purpose and direction and I feel that it definitely helped me along that path. Being surrounded by genuine, like-minded individuals each week has been wonderful. I could feel that the course had been very thoughtfully created and put together and it was a privilege to have been a part of it.”
“Being True to You has been incredibly supportive in refining and deepening the knowledge I had prior to taking the course and has allowed me to confidently move forward with what it looks like to create my own program. The areas of knowledge I was already confident in feel expanded and clear and the areas I was less confident in feel manageable; it feels really clear what I need more education and/or practice with and where my strengths are. I have changed mostly in my own confidence that I am doing the work I’m meant to be doing. It has also helped me organize my time in different ways and stay on a schedule and a timeline. Both of which add to my personal organization and management techniques for clients. It has helped me be more efficient.”
“Being True To You training was a reality check on multiple levels. The depth and thoroughness of content was a revelation in terms of exactly how much there is to learn and be aware of in terms of coaching. In the best of ways it was humbling. And, I feel like I’ve grown a tremendous amount in terms of capacity to hold space and be a safe, compassionate witness to whoever is sitting in front of me. The training has recalibrated how I consider how I approach my own life and employing the learnings in my life to be a brighter lighthouse for others. The training was a beautiful hall of mirrors to understand my own existence and how to create transformational change within my own life.”
“The Being True To You coach training had a significant impact on my life and I feel I have changed and grown greatly over the past 5 months. I currently find that I can feel my emotions much more deeply, fully, process through them, and learn the importance of how going through is the only way out. I also find myself applying parts work to myself, coming to know and understand my parts more and in deep ways. I can tell that I have been integrating and feeling more whole. The ways in which I interact with loved ones and people around me have positively shifted as well as the way I show up in the world. I feel transformed in my being and can let myself be in the evolution of my journey. I have gained clarity on my control patterns and actively chose to change and rewire myself. I see patterns breaking in my family as a whole, and when I stick to higher choices, I notice patterns in others in the family breaking as well. The way in which I talk to myself, and others, and think about myself, others, and the world has grown. I have come to more deeply understand my beliefs and find myself substituting new ones that align with my true self.
With integration, I feel like this time in the program and everything in it has helped me integrate my medicine journeys even over a year ago. I did not exactly have the preparation or integration I needed, and now I feel more whole with integrating those experiences. There is much more clarity, further insights, and realizations. I even notice myself experiencing what I saw in the future in my journey and now experiencing in the present – I see it unfolding and feel it. It’s undeniably incredible. Going through pain and challenges is so different now and I show up for myself and others in beautiful ways. For example, I was in the middle of a multi-car accident on a highway shortly after I moved back to my home state during this program. I was once again in intense pain and experienced an assortment of head injury symptoms, but I leaned deep into my spirituality and faith, and found myself held and guided even through intense and challenging times.
“This training program has been transformative for me. It has helped me understand so much about myself and how I want to show up in the world moving forward. I now have a better understanding of the nature of addiction and of the path of transformation. I believe that I am now ready to go out into the world and help others who are going through the transformation process, whether they are using entheogenic medicines or not.”
“My wife and I attended Being True To You coach training together. Our communication skills improved markedly over the course. The knowledge and skills that we learned from this course are effective for coaching as well as interpersonal relationships.”
“Over the last 5 months, I feel like I’ve grown mentally and for sure got more than my money’s worth. After every discussion, partner coaching, workshop, and even doing the coursework, I’ve felt like I am adding to the tools that I could need not only if I’m helping clients, but also for myself. I have seen myself becoming much more open to other people and what they have to say, how they feel, and also how I feel in situations in the present or in the past. The things that I have learned in this course will help me not only with helping clients but also with my own life and my view on it. So many things have changed it’s hard to talk about all of them, but I am so grateful for everyone who played a part in the whole process!”
Yes, I feel ready. (I have been doing Integration Coaching work for just shy of a year and have been in the role of Coach for appx 10 years in various wellness capacities.) Despite my experiential background + other trainings I have completed, this training has been the most valuable to me professionally (and personally as mentioned above).”
“I have been able to re-define my world view, have new understandings and can express my true self in deeper ways. Being True To You has truly helped me look deeper within myself and question whether I have been “doing the work,” and made me find ways to go deeper. One of the greatest gifts I take personally is the ability to stop and feel what is going on in my body and allow myself to move through feelings and emotions, and giving myself the grace, love, and support I had previously disassociated from.”
Program Graduate
“This program is one I am very proud of because it was the hardest thing I have ever done and I do now want to share that experience with others as a coach. I will be proud to say I learned from the best at Being True To You. I feel a purpose and have a clear idea of what a future looks like.”
Thank you to everyone at Being True To You and in this current cohort for bringing acceptance, healing, inspiration and community to my life. I feel empowered to empower others.”
“The Being True To You training has been a transformative and positive experience for me and my personal growth. After over 20 years of coping, struggling, and suffering from my ex-husband’s pain medication addiction, my middle son’s opiate addiction, and the death of my oldest son’s overdose, I found myself having the desire to help other’s through their similar journey. Over the years, through it all, my desire to fix, save, and rescue them all sent me on my own journey of falling down and picking myself back up again and again. No matter how hard I tried to control the outcome that I wanted I was shown otherwise. Finally, after the death of my son in 2022 and putting my other son in a lock down facility in Mexico in 2024 only to release him 30 days later with a prompt long and dark relapse, did I come to the realization that these experiences were theirs, and not mine to control. I learned just prior to signing up for this Being True To You course that there was a possibility that I very well could lose another son to addiction, and that if I didn’t change my relationship with the nature of addiction I may not survive losing another child. This course showed up right when I needed it the most. It helped me to understand the complexities and insidious nature that addiction can have on not only the addict, but most certainly those who love them. I now have so much more compassion for my son’s struggles, while not taking it on. It has been interesting that throughout this course my son continues to struggle but I have learned to use my coaching skills to help us both through it all. I help hold the space for him to figure it out, while loving him with boundaries, compassion, and most importantly no attachment to my own desire for a particular outcome.
Julie Palian
Program Graduate
Looking back, I realize it was one of the most challenging processes I have ever experienced, but it was necessary and one of the most rewarding. Not only was I able to work on some things that were preventing my personal growth, but Being True To You also provided a safe container to do so. After completing the course, I felt confident that I had acquired the knowledge and skills needed to become a successful coach, yet I still felt I needed to address more personal issues before I could effectively apply what I had learned.
“Being True To You had a big influence on my ability to listen without judgement, made me a better listener and a more compassionate one. I feel that I have grown a lot, mature in my way of seeing relationships. It helps to be a more patient and compassionate entheogenic provider. Definitely help to see my own biases and addictive behaviors.”
Ryan Letts
Program Graduate
“I have loved taking the Being True To You course these last five months. I came into the course with an open mind and curiosity and left with a greater understanding of the awakening I had been going through for the last several years. I learned that even though our journeys might all be different, they have one thing on common – all the life experiences, good or bad are leading us back to self and connection with all that is. That we all have an internal compass that helps us navigate through the complexities of life. I also learned there are many ways and tools to get to there, and they are all valid.
“It has been a positive journey for me. The health issues that I have encountered in the last 6 months have made it a difficult walk at times. I thank you and the students for positive encouragement and the understanding I have received. One of the biggest things I’ve learned is that really listening, noticing people’s body language, and staying focused will help me a lot when I work with clients in the future. I believe that’s a very positive energy and presence to bring into a ceremony. Being True To You has increased my ability to understand moving forward we all need to pick our own paths to walk and it’s not about right or wrong. I’m just present to walk beside and not to direct or fix people. I understand this better than when the class began. I’m very tech challenged and I really appreciate the help and kindness I’ve received when I have asked for assistance. The instructors have shown me patience and kindness. I have learned a lot participating in the group discussions and I have enjoyed the diversity of the group. Being True To You has helped me to listen even when I don’t necessarily agree. That’s an acquired skill for me. The last thing I’m going to comment on is thanks for opening my mind on different ways to accomplish the same thing. I have been sober through a 12 step program for a long time. Thanks to Being True To You for expanding my ability to see other methods that work as well. My understanding in this area has definitely increased.”
I understand my supportive role better as a coach and guide. I am here to support and empower my clients to access the healing power that is already within them. I see myself as a spiritual doula where I offer tools to support my clients while they do the inner work. I am here to help them remember the truest part of themselves and to help them love themselves back to wholeness. I am grateful for everything that I have learned through Being True To You. I have a deeper respect for the sacredness of everyone’s unique healing journey.
I am grateful to have the ability and opportunity to walk alongside people in their healing journey. I see it as one of the greatest honors and privileges that we can do on this planet. Thank you Being True To You for equipping me with the knowledge and tools to help heal our world one client at a time!”
My attempt at the full story: I sat with Bufo in October 2024 and had one of the most intense, profound spiritual experiences of my life. And while I could recount the full experience, the essence of it was that it unlocked a door in my mind that’d I’d been trying to unlock my entire life. It “blew the lid off”, so to speak. When I returned home, there was no one I could speak to about the depth of what I saw, and so—since we are the creators of our own experience—I decided to create my own community. I joined the Being True To You coach training and quickly realized that I didn’t need to create community by myself; I was already surrounded by one.
You’ve seen what’s real.
Now imagine what’s next—for you.